What to Expect During Your First EMDR Session
- Barcelona Counseling
- Mar 28
- 3 min read

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is a well-researched and effective approach for treating trauma, anxiety, and other mental health challenges. If you have scheduled your first EMDR session at Barcelona Counseling, you may have questions about what to expect. Understanding the process can ease any concerns and allow you to make the most of your session.
The Initial Assessment
Your first EMDR session will begin with an initial assessment. This is an essential step where your therapist will gather information about your history, current challenges, and therapy goals. You can expect to discuss:
Your personal history: Your therapist will ask about past experiences, including traumatic events, stressors, or patterns that have impacted your emotional well-being.
Your symptoms and concerns: This could include anxiety, depression, PTSD, or other difficulties that have led you to seek EMDR therapy.
Your coping mechanisms: Your therapist may explore how you currently handle stress and difficult emotions.
Your therapy goals: Identifying what you hope to achieve with EMDR therapy will help guide the treatment process.
This conversation helps the therapist determine if EMDR is the right fit for you and ensures the therapy is customized to your needs.
Understanding the EMDR Process
After the assessment, your therapist will explain how EMDR therapy works. EMDR is based on an eight-phase approach, but during the first session, the focus is typically on:
Building rapport and trust: Establishing a strong therapeutic relationship is essential for effective treatment.
Explaining the EMDR phases: Your therapist will provide an overview of the eight-phase process, emphasizing how eye movements or other bilateral stimulation help reprocess distressing memories.
Answering your questions: You are encouraged to ask any questions to feel more comfortable with the process.
The Role of the Therapist
Your therapist will act as a guide throughout your EMDR journey. They are trained to create a safe and supportive environment, helping you manage your thoughts and emotions. During the first session, they will:
Provide education about trauma and EMDR therapy so you understand the process and its benefits.
Help you identify target memories that may be addressed in future EMDR sessions.
Teach relaxation and grounding techniques to ensure you have tools to manage emotions that may arise.
The goal of the first session is not to dive directly into reprocessing traumatic memories but to establish a strong foundation for future sessions.
How to Prepare for Your First EMDR Session
Preparing for your first session can help you feel more at ease and ready to engage in the process. Here are a few tips:
Keep an open mind: EMDR is different from traditional talk therapy, and being open to the process can enhance its effectiveness.
Practice self-care before your session: Engage in relaxing activities such as deep breathing, meditation, or light exercise.
Bring a journal: Writing down thoughts, emotions, and questions before and after sessions can help track your progress.
Get plenty of rest: Being well-rested can improve focus and emotional resilience.
Be patient with yourself: Healing takes time, and the first session is just the beginning of your journey.
Moving Forward with EMDR
Your first EMDR session is an introduction to a powerful therapy that can help you process distressing memories and improve your emotional well-being. Our trained therapists at Barcelona Counseling are here to guide you every step of the way, ensuring a safe and supportive experience. Feel free to contact our team if you have any questions or concerns before your first session. By understanding what to expect, you can approach your first EMDR session with confidence, knowing you are taking an important step toward healing and personal growth.